Tuesday 30 December 2014

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Here are some advantages of you not being in a relationship

1.You can sleep well.

2.You can save time and money.

3.No worries about how you look.

4.No missed calls in the midnight.

5.No need to recharge more than twice a day.

6.You can talk to all boys/girls any time and anywhere.

7.You can eat well.

8.No scolding from parents/guardians.

9.You can eat in any restaurant.

10.You can visit anybody.

11.You can pick any call,any time and anywhere without being questioned.

12.You don't need to worry about missed calls.

13.Your spiritual life is up-to-date.

Pls am I right?.
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If you have done all your best to show someone that you love them wholeheartedly but still they aren't contented with your love and care every month and every year, then just know you are dealing with a wrong a person and definitely you are wasting your
time.

Do you know why? It's because a right
person who was meant to be the love of your life won't have to make you do things you have never done in your life.

Everything little thing you will do for them will just make them happy and love you more. You won't have to stress yourself or sacrifice your dignity to make the relationship work. Everything will happen slowly,naturally, and surely. So, if you are dealing with such a
wrong person, just know you need to take a step back and do something about it not to just hang in there as if its what you deserve. You shouldn't go into a New Year when you are in such unhealthy relationship.

Make changes when it's still early and start a new year in a new style.
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"I dedicate this to that special person holding my heart and all my fans here" Take your time, read and share it to all your friends out there.

THE JOURNEY OF LOVE

Someone comes into your life,Befriends you, He or she starts being so special to you, That person becomes so close to you, He or she
starts to mean everything to you, you start to miss that person, and you then realize that your life can't go on without him or her, you start missing food and sleep!

Your life totally changes.
That person promises you heaven on earth and He or she keeps on telling you that he/she is different from the ones you have ever had. You heart gets softened till you surrender it to that special person you call heaven sent.

Everything goes on well, you share good moments... but suddenly, he/she starts to change after getting what they wanted, He or she reduces on the texts and calls, they start to build up many excuses, That sweet heart of yours starts becoming too busy for you...You start to cry, plead and ask forgiveness but all in vain till you're dumped and they
move on. You get heart-broken; you swear never to fall in love again. You start hating love, you start saying that all men and
women are the same basing on what that heartless ex did to you, you start distrusting everyone. You live a single a life but after sometime, you start admiring your happy friends in love, loneliness squeezes you then you decide to try loving a gain.

Another handsome dude or lady comes into your life, you start to think that he or she is heaven sent but still you go through the same process Friends that's the journey of love, No one who can escape it and no one who will never get heart broken. So if you have
someone who is treating you like a king or a queen, truly and faithfully love that person because true love is hard to find.
Do whatever it takes for both of you to last longer. Don't easily dump that person because of minor disagreements. Call or text that person, meet him or her and apologize. Value that person's effort and everything he or she sacrifices for you. Don't take that
person's love for granted because someone out there yearns for that person's love and care. They long to replace you one day.

Think about it most especially YOU reading this. "Guys this is my own simple write up straight from the bottom of my heart"

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In my interaction with all kinds Of ladies over the years, I discovered that there are some questions that they don't normally reply you with the truth. It's as if it's a Taboo in their "Ladies Kingdom". Even if they are too good, they often keep silent with a smile (I call that GREEN LIES) OR "bend" the truth until you can't tell which is truth anymore. lol.

Below are some of those questions:

1. How old are you?
Majority of ladies feel that if they reveal their age to an interested young man in a social network, they might be looked down upon, but not with a potential partner na...
Age is a number, just spill it.
Hiding it does not reduce it.

2. Are you in a relationship?
When you ask her this question, TWO things are involved. She might say YES to make you think that she is not lonely and bored.
If she says NO, it might be that she's a type that wants to "dig gold" from all angles OR she might just be spreading her tentacles.
Lies remains Lies!

3. Are you a Virgin?
This is like a rhetorical question. Before you ask, just answer it yourself, YES!
Some might get mad at you just for asking, hah! Bae, sorry o... My curiosity got the better of me...

4. What can make you tell a lie?
Lies? Lies are bad, she'll reply. I don't lie. I hate lying. Take a deep breath because you've just been lied to.

5. Do you love me?
NB: I've never asked this sha . lol.
Whenever you get to this point, don't try to ask. Anything you hear is obviously not the truth. Why? Love is shown more than it's spoken.

6. When was the last time you got laid?
More often than not, if she is a bit honest, she'll tell, two years ago or A year and six months.
I'm not doubting her but... hmm!
God is watching ooo!

7. What did you take for breakfast?
Hehehe! She will never tell you garri or "packet shirt" with ogbono soup.
She will tell you things like: Plantain chips, Indomie, Bread and tea...
The thing go fear me more when I ask, since
morning? and she replies, Yes!
Hah! Where you get strength from to rush for
lectures? You be Super woman?
She won't tell you she's watching her weight which
Most times are PLAIN, SILLY LIES! Lol!
For most part, She'll tell you Nothing, I am not hungry or I have lost appetite... iffa hear!
All she needs to hear is just your "Bae, try and eat something, OK" lol.
These are my findings, you can add to it.

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1. "I'm So Happy That You're In My Life."
Hehe.. I wonder who wouldn't love to hear that. It's really a great word that can diffuse any doubt or dispute in your relationship.

2. "I'm Very Sorry."
Just swallow your pride and say it's all your fault.You have better things to do and more important rules to stand on.

3. "You're Great At That."
Boosting her confidence is always a good thing. Make her feel elevated by you.

4. "Please, Tell Me All About It."
Even if she talks for 30 minutes, all you need to do is nod along and she will label you a great listener.

5. "You're So Beautiful."
Most men get lazy with this one the longer the
relationship goes, but you should try to say it at least once a week. I say mine 3-4 times in a week..

How many times do you ?
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1. The ones who will praise the first student to submit his booklet making every other students look like they know nothing. Woooooow !!! Do you mean you have finished? They will face other students and say " can u see your life oooo?, he finished b4 an hour" That is a well prepared student

2. The ones who will keep telling you the history of their lives, how they performed excellently amongst their peers when they were in college. They will tell you they were
always prepared for any exam & the barely got "C" * if I hear*

3. The ones who will collect your question paper and go through it. They will ask" why sweating profusely for these cheap questions? If I were you I would have finished since
*if I hear*

4. The ones formimg James Bond in the hall. They will start giving testimonies of how many students they have caught cheating and have been rusticated **wetin concern me with
dat one ?**

5. The ones who will collect your question paper, go through
the questions and shake their heads pitifully without saying
anything

6. The ones who will glance at your answer booklet and they will ask why your booklet is blank. "Didn't you read 4 dis exam ?" **Abeg swerve go left jhor**

7. The ones who will never accept your apology if you are caught cheating. The moment you are caught cheating, just
hurriedly obtain the next available Jamb form grin

8. The ones who are very sensitive. Try communicate with any student and they will change your seat grin . You keep wondering how smart they really are to have noticed you

9. The ones who are very gentle and friendly. Thirty minutes into they hall they are already sleeping. The moment you are making noise, they will wake up, walk around and return
back to their seat. Before you know it they will sleep off grin

10. The ones who will force you to submit even if you still
have an hour left. They will tell you "what are you still
writing when all your mates have submitted
Feel Free To Add Yours

Monday 15 December 2014

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One of Nigeria's top blogger and all round blogger,jide ogunsanya was involved in an accident today. The blogger took his testimony to facebook after his life was saved by saying "Just had an accident with my car. Would av been dead by now.......but thank God, am OK" . We pray we don't loose one of our own,he is a mentor,a father, a brother from another mother. Let's keep praying,december is full of tragedies and lots of tribulations.

Saturday 29 November 2014

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This really sounds funny but I think I'm kinda guilty of it wink . I know some dudes will storm and bash this thread by claiming maturity


I'm not saying it's a big deal but sometimes urinating when a lady or crush is spotted can get you tensed and uncomfortable

As bold and confident as I am, When pee-ing and a pretty lady or a crush is spotted, the muscles that controls my urination tightens up and stops flowing the way it ought to flow grin

Dudes do you experience this ?
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One part of a woman’s body that many, nay, most men find very attractive, alluring and sexy is the bosom. It is one part that has enjoyed so much attention from men. Even though men have theirs, with a negligible size though, they lust after these female organs for several reasons.

As much as men love the female bosoms, usually for aiding their sexual satisfaction and other reasons, a study has shown that there are life-changing health benefits of staring at women’s bosoms, such as lowering blood pressure and reducing the instance of coronary artery disease. The study found that men who stare at women’s bosoms for at least 10 minutes daily tend to live longer than those who do not.
Even though men would like to maintain straight face while talking to women, the male eyes usually have a way of drifting down.


In fact, a previous research had shown that when men are confronted with bosoms, or even bosom-related stimuli, like bras, they tend to start making bad decisions. It was pointed out in the study that men would rather watch videos of attractive women with lots of skin exposed and be compensated with a lesser amount than watch pastoral scenes where a large sum of money would be offeredas compensation.

“This indicates that parts of men’s brains associated with reward, the pleasure centres, and the sites of goal-directed motivation, were shutting down the reasoning centres of their brains, primarily the pre-frontal cortex. Neurochemicals were activating those reward and motivational circuits to drive men toward taking smaller amount of money. So bosoms are mightily tempting,” the study said.
Regardless, study has shown that staring at the bosoms for a length of time is beneficial to the men’s health.


The study done by a German scientist, Dr. Karen Weatherby, and published in the New England Journal of Medicine, said staring at women’s bosoms is not only healthy, but also elongates the life span of such men.

The study, which was carried out over a period of five years, involved 500 men, half of whom were instructed to stare at women’s bosoms in a lustful manner for at least 10 minutes every day, while the other half were instructed to abstain from doing such.

Weatherby concluded that men who stared at the bosoms more often, as instructed, showed lower rates of heart problems, a lower resting heart rate and lower blood pressure, all of which enable a healthy living and long life. He said men should stare at bosoms for 10 minutes a day to improve the wellness oftheir hearts and live longer.
Weatherby said, “Just 10 minutes of staring at the charms of a well-endowed female everyday is roughly equivalent to a 30-minute aerobics work-out. When the two groups ofmen were tested, men that stared at bosoms daily had lower blood pressure, slower resting pulse rates, as well as fewer instances of coronary artery disease.

“Sexual excitement gets the heart pumping and improves blood circulation. Gazing at bosoms makes men healthier and engaging in this activity a few minutes daily cuts the risk of stroke and heart attack by half. We believe that by doing so consistently, the average man can extend his life forfour to five years.”

It was gathered that many men are attracted to women with big bosoms, and apart from the fact that all women experience increase in the size of their bosoms during pregnancy and menstrual cycle, women with bigger bosoms have been found to be men’s delight.

In another study carried out on 200 male outpatients at three hospitals in Frankfurt, Germany, in same order with the previous study, half of the participants were told to look at female bosoms, while the other half were told to refrain from doing so. After five years of issuing the instruction and monitoring the effect on the participants, it was found out that the chest-watchers had a healthier heart, as identified above and have the tendency of living longer than the other group.

A number of men who spoke to our correspondent said they usually experience a surge in their hearts and an unusual faster heartbeat rate when they see women’s bosoms, especially the bigger ones.
Desmond Oni, 29, said he had always seen such sudden reaction as normal. “Whenever I see a woman’s bosoms, especially those who open them for people to see, it feels like my heart would jump out of my body, and then whilst I still look at it, a number of things could run through my mind at a time.”
Why then do men look at bosoms, people might ask. The Director, Centre for Translational Social Neuroscience, Emory University, United States, Dr. Larry Young, who is also an expert in the neuroscience of social bonding, gave reasons why men love bosoms, especially when looking at curvaceous women, those having an attractively curved shape.

He explained that apart from the fact that humans are among the very rare animals that have sex face-to-face, looking into each other’s eyes, which breeds some intimacy between the two sexes, the mother-infant bonding brain activity could have made men lovers of bosoms, even froma younger age.

Young said, “Why are heterosexual men so fascinated by women’s bosoms that they sometimes act as if the bosoms are the seat of the soul? Well, we happen to be heterosexual men who are interested in biology and have been used to bosoms since birth.

“When a woman gives birth, her newborn will engage in some pretty elaborate manipulations ofher bosoms. This stimulation sends signals along nerves and into the brain and the signals trigger the release of a neurochemical called oxytocin from the brain’s hypothalamus. Hence, the unusual attraction.

“Biologically speaking, this obsession with bosoms is pretty weird. Men are the only male mammals fascinated by bosoms in a sexual context and women are the only female mammals whose bosoms become enlarged at puberty, independent of pregnancy. We are also the only species in which males caress, massage and even orally stimulate the female bosoms during pre-intimacy and sex.

“Women do seem to enjoy the attention, at least at the right moments. Men are extremely drawn to bosoms and it is not only biological, but an unconscious evolutionary drive deeply engrained in their brains.”

Reacting to the study, a professor of psychology, Toba Elegbeleye, said if the study based its findings on a single factor, which is just staring at the bosom, then, it could be regarded as inconclusive, more so because the medical condition of the participants before the study was not disclosed.

He argued that what happened after the men stared at the bosom was more important than the staring, adding that it was whatever the staring led to, such as sexual intercourse, that had the capacity to lower the blood pressure and give long life and not just the staring alone.

He noted that non-forceful sexual intercourse, which could be an aftermath of the staring, could reduce blood pressure and increase blood circulation, which ultimately prolongs life because the staring is not an end on its own.

He said, “I will prefer to ascribe that lowering of blood pressure and other benefits mentioned to the ultimate level where the man is relieved of the urge that the staring has started in him. But if it is not carried through, I want to doubt the veracity of that experiment.

“It is a very tricky subject because it is difficult to isolate the staring as the only factor responsible for the difference in heart rate or blood circulation between the two groups. Staring at a woman’s bosom can actually cause sexual excitement but it is usually a precursor to having sexual intercourse, which is an act that could raise the blood circulation.

“If a man stares at a woman’s bosom for 10 minutes spanning five years, it may return the man into a position that may be very injurious to his health except where he ends up self-servicing or having sexual intercourse and about 39 per cent of men indulge in self-service.

“On a general note, when men see the Unclothedness of a woman, something must agitate in their blood stream and biologically, it leads to a rise in their blood flow and tampers with their sexual system. However, beyond the seeing, it is what happens after, like sex, that could make them live longer, because normally, involvement in sex prolongs life.

“Since the study didn’t present the other details, we can say it is inconclusive because what the men do after the staring must have tampered with their sexual system and has the capacity of lowering blood pressure.”
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 Found this article titled 'Each time a man connects with a woman sexually and releases his life form energy within her, he leaves a part of his information (DNA) in her birth canal" on BlackSupremacy, and thought to share. Read below and tell us if you agree with the writer's school of thoughts...
Each time a man connects with a woman sexually and releases his life form energy within her, he leaves a part of his information (DNA) in her birth canal. If she doesn’t clean herself, his energy remain inside of her. That imprint can often create illusion sexual addiction to the individual.


When some one decide to have multiple partners, it can sometimes send mixed emotional signals within the inside of the body’s vibration system. Women must be careful of different energies or spiritual forces polluting their internal temple. You are a sacred doorway, where life is intended to pass through, respect yourself, use your gifts wisely!

Just think about it and ask yourself… Ever wonder why they call it sexual intercourse (INTER-Course)? It’s an internal course that unites man and woman, mind with mind, spirit with spirit, or energy with energy. This is something that a condom can’t protect you against because energy is behind the elements of all flesh.

There is no such thing as “casual” sex or “friends with benefits”. No, No, No, I Don’t Think So!!! Intimate activity intricately entwines the energies between two people. Sex creates a powerful exchange of energy between those involved. These connections, imprints and debris are left upon the mind, soul and spirit for a long time because they are not easily purged or cleansed.

Casual sex’ with multiple partners can intertwine the energies and spirits of a lot of people into your own aura if they are not severed and cleansed. You become joined to every person with whom your partner has slept, as well as all the partners those people had.

This type of “soul clutter” can be felt by your partner’s subconscious. Even if they are not completely in tune or aware of the extra-curricular sexual activities, they still are able to sense the subtle disturbances of multiple energies and/or familiar spirits that have entered causing restlessness and inner turmoil.

The longer and more intimate the contact with another person, the more powerful the reinforcement and the interaction of the bond becomes, and all the more difficult it is for them to untangle and leave.

Soul stains, transference of odors, perceptive connections and even mutually formed habits are now left to burden the psyche long after that relationship has ended.

~use your conjuring powers wisely in every aspect of your life. Sexual energy is sacred~
What do you guys think?

Thursday 6 November 2014

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What is virginity?

A ‘virgin’ is traditionally seen as someone who
has never had sexual intercourse before. However, people have different ideas about what ‘losing
your virginity’ means. For some, it’s having heterosexual sex for the first time. For others, it can mean having any sort of sex – including gay or lesbian sex – for the first time.

Does oral / fingering / anal / hand jobs count as.losing your virginity?

This is a difficult question, and again, people have different views. Whether you think these things
‘count’ or not, don’t forget that all of them can transmit sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).
And whatever you think ‘being a virgin’ means, remember that the most important thing is
making sure you’re ready before you do anything sexual, whether it’s the first time or not. There’s
nothing wrong with being a virgin, and you shouldn’t feel like you have to go further then you
are comfortable with because of peer pressure.

Won’t I look inexperienced if I admit it’s my first time?

No – be honest with your partner. There’s nothing embarrassing about telling them that you
haven’t been with anyone else. If you’re close enough to someone to be thinking about having
sex, you should be close enough to be able to talk honestly to him or her.
“We’ve sort of decided to wait a bit longer before we do it. I mean, we have kissed and felt each
other and all that sort of thing, you know, maybe just going a little bit further each time”

Won’t I be judged if I admit that I’ve had sex before?

Again, it’s usually better to have enough of a trusting relationship to chat openly about your
experiences.You deserve not to be judged. If anyone makes you feel bad for things that have happened in your life, they’re probably not good enough to give your time to. Remember that there is no definite
way of knowing if a girl is a virgin or not, a lack of bleeding is not proof (see ‘will first time sex
hurt’ below). I’m getting married and have not had sex before… In some countries, it’s common for young people to get married. Sometimes families arrange the marriage, sometimes not. You may have already
been in a relationship with your partner, or you may not know your partner very well. Whatever
the situation, talk to your partner about sex before you do it, and don’t feel like you have to rush into
it on your wedding night.

Will first time sex hurt?

First-time sex can be painful or hurt, and some girls or young women do bleed a little bit. The
bleeding usually occurs because the girl has a hymen which breaks the first time she has sexual
intercourse. The hymen is a small piece of thin skin which goes across the opening of the vagina and
protects it when she is young. It has some gaps in it where the blood can come out when she has
her period. Sometimes a girl might already have broken her hymen without knowing about it. For
example, this can happen as a result of playing sports or horse riding.
Sex the first time shouldn’t be painful or hurt for a boy or young man, but he can make it easier
for his partner by being gentle and taking it slowly – try to make it special for you both.

Is the first time someone has sex enjoyable?

Some couples say that on their first time they both enjoyed it, other couples say that neither of
them had an orgasm. It’s an individual thing, just try not to expect too much from your first time –
like anything else, it takes a while to learn about your body and about your partner’s. Just make
sure that you’re ready and you’ve got contraception sorted out.

“What was it like? – 

Well it’s difficult to describe
because I’d never felt anything like it before really. I’d had orgasms through masturbation before, but
sharing yourself with someone you love and respect was really good. It brought us closer together. ”

Check Back Next Time For Another Episode
Am I ready for sex?
Having sex
Sex, fun and safety

Wednesday 5 November 2014

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There are kisses for just about every emotion and occasion — the greeting kiss on the cheek,the maternal kiss on the forehead, an
affectionate kiss on the lips — but on those certain occasions when you want to communicate passion and maybe lust, not just.any kiss will do. You need a fiercely passionate kiss. If done incorrectly, these kisses can turn
out being gross or sloppy, but when performed
with skill and feeling, there is no greater
expression of desire.

1. Make sure your breath is minty fresh
and clean. Naturally you practice good
oral hygiene, but if you have any doubts
about your breath, take a breath mint
shortly before the kiss. Make sure to finish
the mint or gum before you lock lips.
Be careful, as some mints may leave a
bad aftertaste and make your breath
worse. Water is the best bet! Leaves
you no aftertaste, and freshens your
mouth and does not leave you thirsty.

2. Make sure your breath is minty fresh
and clean. Naturally you practice good
oral hygiene, but if you have any doubts
about your breath, take a breath mint
shortly before the kiss. Make sure to finish
the mint or gum before you lock lips.
Be careful, as some mints may leave a
bad aftertaste and make your breath
worse. Water is the best bet! Leaves
you no aftertaste, and freshens your
mouth and does not leave you thirsty.
Approach the kiss with confidence. Try
to kiss their cheek so they turn their
head your way. Once you've chosen the
right moment to kiss someone, there's no
turning back, especially if it's your first time
kissing that particular person. Be decisive
and confident. If the person doesn't want the
kiss, he or she will let you know, but until
then, act as though you're a pro.

3.Make sure your breath is minty fresh
and clean. Naturally you practice good
oral hygiene, but if you have any doubts
about your breath, take a breath mint
shortly before the kiss. Make sure to finish
the mint or gum before you lock lips.
Be careful, as some mints may leave a
bad aftertaste and make your breath
worse. Water is the best bet! Leaves
you no aftertaste, and freshens your
mouth and does not leave you thirsty.
Approach the kiss with confidence. Try
to kiss their cheek so they turn their
head your way. Once you've chosen the
right moment to kiss someone, there's no
turning back, especially if it's your first time
kissing that particular person. Be decisive
and confident. If the person doesn't want the
kiss, he or she will let you know, but until
then, act as though you're a pro.
Set the mood. If you truly want your
kiss to be passionate, you will need to
set the right mood. That doesn’t mean that
you have to throw rose petals everywhere
and light a hundred candles, but you should
be some place without many distractions--
that way you can both focus on each other
(and your passionate kiss).

Enjoying this right? Second part coming soon. Stay updated with me.

08179545998----whatsapp me

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Yea, some girls are not to be trusted simply because of their fragile mind and their overwhelming love for guys.

Girls hate to admit the fact that they have undying love and extreme positive feelings for we guys. Even when they are in an active relationship,they still find comfort in eyeing other guys which is not fair to us.

I have so much personally experienced a lot of girls atrocities,betrayals,distrust,amongst others. Have you ever seen your girl talking to other guys when you are with her? How do you really feel? Good or bad?

Girls so much love attention with extreme love and care,whereas,they give guys just little. This is just a preamble into the main topic we are going into.

Now i guess you don't wanna miss it, to read it all, click here

Tuesday 4 November 2014

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BETHESDA, Maryland -- Women, often considered "the Mysterious Sex," will now be a bit less mysterious thanks to the recently leaked document, "5 Biggest Secrets About Women They Don't Want Men to Know!" They eye-opening document was leaked by an insider at the all-female National Women's Research Institute, in Bethesda, Maryland. "When we find out which of our employees leaked those survey results," states NWRI spokeswoman Melanie Aroyan, "she'll be fired -- and sued. And if it was up to me, she'd also be horse-whipped."
The document consists of the survey answers of over 10,000 women of all ages and ethnic groups to the question, "As a woman, what is it about you that you would never want men to know?" The survey results were never meant to be revealed to men, as they represent the deepest secrets women have about their gender.
Here, from the survey's summation page, are the 5 Biggest Secrets About Women They Don't Want Men to Know:

1. Women's Public Bathrooms Are Lush Havens Beyond Men's Wildest Dreams. If a man mistakenly enters a woman's public bathroom, he'll see what appears to be an ordinary restroom. Only women, however, know the location of the secret sliding panel in each women's restroom that opens to reveal the hidden, deluxe section. This section features wild, tropical plants; hunky, naked male models offering sensual massages; the live music of a classical quartet; a jacuzzi and sauna; luscious gourmet foods and wines; attendants offering manicures, pedicures, and bikini waxes; an upscale clothing boutique; and current movies on large-screen TVs.

2. Women Are Just Pretending to Have Periods. There's no such thing as menstrual cycles and periods. It's something women simply made up to give themselves a one-week reprieve from men's non-stop groping and pawing in bed. And, yes, the tampon companies are all run by women and are in on the scam. Women get a refund check from the tampon companies at the end of each year for a percentage of their tampon purchases.

3. Women Crave Sex Even More Than Men Do. If men knew that, though, it would throw off the whole balance of sexual power that is now clearly in women's favor. For this reason, women must maintain the illusion that what's between their legs is gold and to be rationed judiciously.

4. Every Woman is Bisexual. Women just pretend to be upset when a relationship with a man comes to an end. In reality, that's their perfect opportunity to immediately begin or resume a passionate relationship with one of their many hot female friends.

5. Women Will Take Over the Planet in the Year 2025. Since it has already been proven that women are smarter, more resourceful, emotionally stronger, more attractive, and live longer than men -- it only makes sense that they, and not men, should run the world. They have been planning to take over the planet for the past 150 years. They hope to do so in a non-violent fashion, but are nonetheless prepared to do so by any means necessary.

Monday 3 November 2014

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In every day, there are 1,440 minutes. That means we have 1,440 daily opportunities to make a positive impact. Les Brown

1. Life isn’t about getting and having, it’s about giving and being. –Kevin Kruse

2. Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve. –Napoleon Hill

3. Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value. – Comrade Olamilekan

4. Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.  –Robert Frost

5. I attribute my success to this: I never gave or took any excuse. –Florence Nightingale

6. You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. –Wayne Gretzky

7. I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed. –Michael Jordan

8. The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity. –Amelia Earhart

9. Every strike brings me closer to the next home run. –Babe Ruth

10. Definiteness of purpose is the starting point of all achievement. –W. Clement Stone

11. We must balance conspicuous consumption with conscious capitalism. –Kevin Kruse

12. Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans. –John Lennon

13. We become what we think about. –Earl Nightingale

14.Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do, so throw off the bowlines, sail away from safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your sails.  Explore, Dream, Discover. –Mark Twain

15.Life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. –Charles Swindoll

Saturday 1 November 2014

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Irrespective of the dictums outlined in religious texts and principles about the importance of marriage; the decision whether to go in for one or to remain single is essentially personal in nature where the questions of scriptures or rules of theologians should not come into play. This is particularly true of the current situation marked by extremes of stress, strain and struggle; in spite of all its techno savvy benefits.



With much thrust upon competition and rat race; a man's common place existence is one of extreme struggle and strain. This in turn is working havoc on marital and other relationships based on close bonding and trustfulness. Sometimes the sheer apprehension that things may not work out fine on home front has compelled people desirous of climbing up the social order to stay single.

  • People with a sharp or obsessive focus on career and personal growth often prefer staying single rather than bracing up to the duties and obligations of marriage. Paucity of time and personal inability to share and care keep them away from relationships and marriage.
    Other than social and economic factors, there are people who preferred singularity over marital status on account of their lack of commitment. Rather than going for the hassles of serious relationships leading to marriage or live in stands, certain carefree and happy go lucky individuals choose to remain single.
  • It is true that humans, a part of the civilized society long for and cherish freedom. But it is equally important to note that there are ones including both men and women who cherish freedom to the point of selfishness. It is important or rather imperative that they stay single on account of their inflexibility and ill adjustability to come around to share and care for others. So the inability to compromise and need for absolute freedom from interference or disciplining goad people to stay single.
  • Just as inability to share emotionally can be problematic for some, leading them to the choice of singularity; likewise inability to share financially can be a possible reason. With over magnified stories of spouses nagging for money and possession doing the rounds; the choice of better management of financial prospects keep people specially men away from marriage.
  • People staunchly egoistical without the ability to change or modify often choose to remain single. With their all encompassing ego being predominantly effective, such folks are unable to come around or modify to the ways of better halves or partners.
    Marriages leading to divorce or relationships leading to break ups is one of the well trodden phenomenon. With far reaching repercussions any form of break up or separation can turn out to be tremendously heart wrenching. If one is not into a relationship of the serious order, one need not worry or anticipate such a turn of event. Thus fear of separation or one exposed to too many separations in the formative years of childhood may give way to fears and mental blocks about marriage.
  • In spite of there being too many moral inhibitions about indulging in sexual activities involving multiplicity of partners, similar orientation involving different partners is a well established reality. People beyond the bounds of marriage or serious partnership often take the advantage of their self inflicted singularity so as to indulge in sexual revelry. Even married ones may be equally guilty. But the fact that one is single helps one to feel free.
  • Sometimes staying single over a long period of time on account of some genuine issues of financial concern helps one to pick on the right partner or soul mate. Religious devotion may also draw an individual into a life of chastity and celibacy.
    Irrespective of your status chosen, there are some basic issues and principles of the civilized society to abide by. Regardless of the fact whether one is single or otherwise; we are all expected to maintain the minimum standards of decency and self control.

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Relationships like marriage, romance, live together or any of similar kinds can be sustained with a happy note if some of the secret rules are followed. Relationship is completely subjective and no clear cut rules can be executed on it, yet following certain guidelines may help proceeding happily in a relationship.
Many of these, so called, rules are based on the life experience of many happy couple and also the observation of people. When two people get into relationships, many of them wish for lasting relationships. But pathetically, a good number of them go apart after a while, in search of new partners. Let us see the secrets that constitute long lasting relationships or ever remaining relationships.

Breakup and Divorce are not the Solution

When asked about the best possible way of resolving the issues in relationships or marriage, many people may comment that breakup or a divorce is the best possible method of putting an end to all the troubles in a relationships. It is the biggest mistake people commit.
The reason for increased divorce rate is analyzed as the mentality of people who even before getting into a relationship think divorce as means of solving possible issues in it. Divorce is never an option but it's the utmost decision to be taken in life only at an inevitable situation. Do not even think about a breakup or marriage whenever you confront with minor issues in relationships. Issues are just byproducts of the happiness experienced in the relationships.

No Perfect Relationships, but Perfect Situations

No one can be considered in a perfect relationship, how happy the couple is, as happiness in a relationship is just the happiness of the situations created by the partners. No relationship, as a whole, is destined to be jovial and satisfying. There can be moments of happiness and moments of struggles.
The couple who learns the secrets of balancing both happiness and struggles wins the life and enjoys the best possible relationship and life. When in tension or issues, many people may think that they are fated to fall in to wrong relationship, and at the same time ignore the possible chances of making each moments in life happy by understanding the partner a bit more and adjusting a bit more.

Never be Afraid or Make Him/Her Afraid

Another secret of happy relationship lies in being open and frank with the partner. Do not feel afraid to express you mind to the partner and never ever make him/her afraid of you to tell out the mind. When people communicate each other many of the issues can be melted down. An issue, how ignorable it is, when kept in mind for several days, can take forms of anger, frustration, dislike etc., and get expressed in the most undesirable manners. Let the communication between the partners be a frequent element and no one should hold the words when he/she really wants to talk.

Love Defined is Respect and Care

You can just tell that you love your partner but can never express the love as it is. There is no emotion like love, but it comes as a package which includes, respect, care, share, dedication, forgiveness etc., express the emotions whenever possible to make the other person feel the intensity of your love. Do not be a miser in loving the partner and let your love be unconditional. It is rightly said that love is defined as respect and care. When the partner feels that you do not care for him/her or do not give him/her the due respect, the person may think of an alternative to you.

Always Support Each Other

Never ever leave your partner unsupported. Whatever be the opinions and ideas, know that you are the only one he/she can lean for support. When both of you are alone, you can argue among yourself on points you disagree with the other one, but in public both of you have only one mind. Holding the hands, especially when he/she is sad or broken, is helpful to convey you care for the person. Once you have decided to live together, then no questions of separation may arise, even in the opinions.

Friday 31 October 2014

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Arguing

Although you may think you are making a great first impression, or if you have met with someone on numerous occasions, and are trying to appeal to them, there are a number of things you can spot in their behavior, and the way they respond to you, which will let you know they do not like you. Although many signs are quite obvious, there are also less subtle signs that people give off, if they are not really a fan of you, or do not get along with you too well. These are some signs to look out for, which you will notice when people are uncomfortable around you, or simply do not like you for one reason or the other.
1. The way they look at you 
It might be that simple. If a person always gives you the “evil eye,” or stares are you with disgust, even if you have not done anything to upset them, this is a clear sign that they do not like you much. It might not have been anything you have personally done, in some cases you are just going to butt-heads with others, and this is one of the most obvious signs they do not like you too much.
2. Always blamed 
If you are always blamed for things going wrong, this is another sign that your co workers, or people at school do not like you. If you are not part of a project, or if you are only a small part of it, yet you are being blamed for the errors in a project, and are always blamed when something goes wrong, this is a clear indicator that you are not liked by those around you.
  3. Gossip -
This is another sign that you are not liked. Whether it is at work or school, sports teams, or any other location, if you notice idle gossip each time you walk around a group of people, it is highly likely that they do not like you too much in this location either.
4. You are left out -
If you are always left out, this is an indication you are not liked. If it is a holiday party where all other employees are hired, or if there are small gatherings with co workers on the weekends or after work each day, but you never get an invite, it is a sign that your co workers are not fond of you. If it has only happened once or a few times, it might be a sign that only certain people do not like you, but if it is to every event or gathering, then it is possible you are disliked by the entire group.
5. Last man out -
If you are never picked for the team, or are the last person picked at work for a work assignment, this is another sign you are not liked. Whether it is on the playground for baseball or kickball teams, or whether it is at school where you are being chosen for group projects, or at work, where co workers are going to work together, when you are always the last person to be chosen, it is a clear sign that you are not the most favorable person in a group.
6.Things are accidentally broken -
This might occur in a work or office location. If you always have things “accidentally” broken on your desk, or around your work space, this is another clear cut sign that someone in the office is not a fan of yours. If this is the case, it is in your best interest to report it if it is an ongoing thing, or if you want to avoid further confrontation, simply don’t bring expensive items in to the work place with you each day
7. People stare -
If you always receive the strange looks or stares, for no warranted reason, you might not be liked by the person or group staring at you. Like the idle gossip, if people just stare at you with disdain or disgust, it might not have been something you did, but it may just be a personal vendetta or a clash of personalities, and is a simple way for you to spot someone who does not like you.

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Our women are so great like seriously. Whats your view on this?
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I am a woman and am not proud of my actions, or the situation I put myself into. I’d been having an on-off relationship with my boss, a loathsome alcoholic with a terrible snoring disorder.
One heinous night, we were lying on the bed, him asleep. I was pretty much dressed as it was 4am and was trying to be bothered to get up and go home. Suddenly he let rip with the most almighty fart. This did not amuse me. The smell was indescribable and, worst of all, it was of such volume that he’d woken himself up. Impressive I have to admit.
Shaking his head, he jumped off the bed and shot into the bathroom. Within seconds, I heard the sound of snoring coming from the toilet.
But after a moment I realised that the smell was still lingering and, peeling open my own bloodshot eyes, I noticed the dark stain on the sheets. The dirty bastard. It was all over, and I don’t just mean all over the sheets.
Hurriedly, I pulled on the rest of my clothes, but couldn’t find my right boot. Turning on the light, I nearly fainted: he hadn’t just followed through but had actually released a whole live otter all over the sheets. There it sat, coiled on the bed, looking at me. Had he been facing the other way, he’d have shat on me.
I turned the light off, ran out, jumped in my car and fled home. I was so traumatised I had to wake my flatmate who laughed herself silly. Then she sat up.
‘Er, you turned the light off?’
‘Yes.’
‘So he would have woken up on the toilet... decided it was time to go back to bed... got back in it in the dark...’
We’ll leave it there.”

Thursday 30 October 2014

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1 – Stops you on the street and tells you he admires you and want you.
2 – Make Love to you the first day you visit him.
3 – Spend Real Money on you without thinking twice.
4 – Take you and your Mother Shopping
5 – Sleep with your best friend and maybe your sister and feels no guilt.
6 – Can break up with you at anytime.
7 – Break up with you and still have Sex with you, for maybe the next 4 years.
8 – Can go on Sex strike and refuse to sleep with you.
9 – Can make ladies come for him with his good looks, composure and smart
Dressing.
10 – Foreign women can’t resist them.
11 – Nigeria men are big down here and can fill you up, no matter how wide Nature
or child birth make you.
12 – Sex means nothing to Nigeria men; don’t use it as a weapon on him.
13 – Nigeria men were not made for one woman alone.
14 – Nigeria men don’t care about your satisfaction in Bed, he just does his thing,
but he will be the best in bed, you ever had in this life ( A PROMISE).
15 – Every other Black race hates the Nigeria man, South Africa, Ghana, Zimbabwe,
Jamaica, Angola, Togo, Benin, Senegal, Mali, Kenya, Mauritius, Gambia,
Malawi, Mozambique, St Kitts, Bermuda, Trinidad and Tobago
16 – Nigeria Men makes money anyhow and everywhere (Ask the White Man)
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Nigeria's president has the highest vehicle convoy in the world.
90% of people who are indigenes of Ibadan, the capital of Oyo state
have gaps between their teeth.


Only 18 people out of 18000 who registered passed NECO and WAEC in Gombe State.

Females from Imo state Nigeria have more hair on their chest than their males.

The cost of living in Abuja, is more expensive than the cost of living
in London.

Nigeria has the highest number of musicians in the world.
Abuja girls are materialistic, expensive but cheap.
Beware of Edo girls.

Maiduguri girls have the longest hair.

Ijebu people fart all the time.

Even while having sex. Ibo girls are stingy and greedy.

Fulani girls have the longest tongue.

PH girls like it in the A**

There's a place called Sabo in every state in Nigeria.

Gwagwalada is the hottest place in Nigeria.

Nigeria has the highest number of police officers in Africa.

Osun state has the highest number of Yahoo boys in the country.

4 out of every 5 Edo girls have a connect in Italy.

Calabar girls don't want your money, all they need is your energy.

Nigerians make up 1/8 of the population of Malaysia.

China's best market is Nigeria.

A man was recently sentenced to death by hanging for stealing a car
radio, while Cecilia Ibru was sentenced to 6 months for moving 150
billion.

An average Ibo man can smell money 100 meters away.

Nigerians are the highest users of slangs in Africa, 2nd only to USA
in the world.

The most spoken phrase in Nigeria is "How far ?"

Nigeria is the only country where everybody looks forward to hearing
the First Lady speak.

An Ibo man hustles from Jan 2 to Dec 24, only to spend it all during
xmas n New Year.

Add yours by clicking 'post a comment' below.
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Wednesday 29 October 2014

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This question is as old and worn out as time itself. Yet still, nobody seems to be able to come up with a definite answer for it. Really,Why do most Nigerian students (including those from wealthy homes) either have sugar daddies OR engage in prostitution? I took time out to ask some people around me this question and here are some of their responses.

"its greed of course! Greed, laziness, peer pressure, no ambition! Mutsheeeeew!!!"LOL sounds like he has been a victim of these girls.

"Because their parents don’t give them all the cash they need"

"Money, peer pressure" hmmmm yet again

Yet another person "MONEY! Peer pressure too." I then replied "if that’s the main reason, why can’t they ask their parents, guidance e.t.c or get a decent job?" His response; "ooh! You’ll tell your parents you want bold5 today, they would drop the money. Less than two months after that, you want an iphone then later you want S3…you want to go for this show or that trip, you want to buy vuitton this Gucci that…and you expect them to give you the money every time. Naaaaa! Those girls do it for more money." *phew* that was a long speech but he really did break it down don’t you think.

Do you think that explanation justifies the act? What about their reputation? Keeping themselves for their future husbands or wives, the marriages they are ruining due to the so-called greediness? What happened to being patient and contended with what you have? The questions are endless.

If you think you know the answer to this myth of a question, I really would like to hear from you because I must say ‘I’m baffled’
 
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nigerian girlsThere are a couple of things a man could find a bit difficult to do in life, like studying Rocket Science or learning to play the piano…like Beethoven. But something far harder that goes beyond Calculus and nimble precision is the art of dating Nigerian girls. Why are they more complex than the average non-Nigerian girl? What makes their brains tick (or get ticked off). What I intend to do next is to unravel this mystery…
<<Road map to dating Nigerian Girls>>

Confirm status >>> Evaluate background >>> Measure happiness level
  •  Confirm status
When a man starts to date a Nigerian girl he needs to ascertain what stage she’s at in her life – Is she just coming out of a relationship? Is she ready for a new one? Is she sure of what she wants in the next man in her life? Is she still keeping in ‘close’ contact with her previous boyfriend? All these are pertinent questions which if left unanswered may raise issues in the long run. There is also some preliminary screening you’ll need to perform in order to be sure of what end of the spectrum your would-be Nigerian girlfriend is on;

Changeable       <     <    <    <    <  >    >    >    >    >  Unchangeable

Extroverted        <     <    <    <    <  >    >    >    >    >  Introverted

Thrifty        <     <    <    <    <  >    >    >    >    >   Materialistic

Under 30       <     <    <    <    <  >    >    >    >    >   Over 30

Low Self-esteem <     <    <    <    <  >    >    >    >    >  Hi Self-esteem

Christian           <     <    <    <    <  >    >    >    >    >  Muslim

Church goer     <     <    <    <    <  >    >    >    >    >  Bible basher

Dates only within tribe  <     <    <    <    <  >    >    >    >    > Dates outside tribe

If a Christian young man plans to date a Muslim girl then he needs to be sure if she’s going to attend church with him or if it’s going to be TAIF! (Thank Allah It’s Friday!). If she’s over 30 and is a city-type of chick then she may just have passed her ‘submissive by’ date. The average Nigerian girl is also materialistic. Very few would stop their men from spending unnecessary amounts of money on them except if they were concerned about saving for the future. Some girls don’t have and want a guy who has. Some other girls have and want a guy who has more.
‘…why give a girl your heart when she’d rather have your purse.’ – Lil Wayne
You also need to know where she’s heading in life – Is she planning to have kids? Is she ready to relocate out of the state or country? Is she open to being a housewife? Is she ready to take a break from her career and spend quality time with the kids when they’re toddlers? Does she see herself cooking for her husband or rather employing a maid to feed him, with the occasional dining in expensive restaurants on the maid’s days off?
  • Evaluate background
If the status confirmation stage is successful you might want to note a few things before accessing the ATMs. The next stage could take a while depending on how open or secretive she is or how much access you have to her FTMs (Friends That Matter). Just how important is a Nigerian girl’s background? Very.
Tradition is for most people a source of identity but to others it’s pretty much a curse; especially when certain ideals become accepted by onlookers as the norm. Some Nigerian girls from certain states have been stereotyped as being either very domesticated or stubborn or greedy or open to use of witchcraft or prone to not wanting to spend any of their money (just their partner’s). Some Nigerian tribes frown at marrying outside their own tribe. Some parents of certain tribes believe that when a man marries one of their daughters he would be expected to take up all financial obligations of her family e.g. school fees of her siblings, upkeep of the parents, and occasional soft loans for relatives. Of course when it comes to dating, with no marriage plans in the offing, then tribes tend to date other tribes. Nigerian girls formerly based in the UK or US may or may not want to date a man whose lived and stayed in Nigeria all his life. Some local Nigerian girls have been known to secretly want to fund their trip to the UK or US in order to relocate and start a new life. If that’s your cup of tea then get those VISAs ready.
“Some girls don’t have and want a guy who has. Some other girls have and want a guy who has more.”
You need to ask what principles did she grow up with? What is her definition of Love? Some Nigerian girls are very homely and grown accustomed to cooking and cleaning (for instance) in the family home. This habit tends to permeate into relationships (if the man in question has his own apartment, of course). Some other girls have been used to having a help to take care of all chores so they usually don’t dare do anything close to chores in a man’s flat. It’s not compulsory but it’s a sign of things to come. If she doesn’t ever offer to make you something and always allows you to buy takeaways then you’ll have yourself to blame by the time you’re both ‘happily’ married.
I’m afraid if you like the Westernized Nigerian girls then you’re most likely in for a power tussle in almost any form of decision-making. Such girls see themselves as your equals – you’d probably just see them as stubborn. If you’re not ready for this kind of drama then you’re better off with a girl whose respectful and willing to let you play the role of man; taking charge most (if not all) of the time. Check her attitude towards men generally and compare that to your experience. If there is no difference then make a difference by taking a walk.
<<Standard men Nigerian girls want>>

~The Aristo~
– Usually from a wealthy family and spares no expense

~The Aje Butter~
– Has been outside of Nigeria (UK or US) and is relatively comfortable money wise

~The Accessory~
– He’s great for showing off to her family, friends and maybe a few colleagues and that’s about it #youtwolookgreattogether

~The Maga~
– He’ll worship the ground she walks on and when asked to jump he will attempt to defy gravity until she tells him to come down.
  •  Measure happiness level
This is probably the most important stage which must not be overlooked. It’s also the easiest to grapple with; if she is not happy with any aspect of her life up until the moment you’re dating her then what are the odds that she’ll make you happy? Some Nigerian girls are more preoccupied with making other people happy while others are more focused on making only themselves happy. Just make sure she factors your happiness into the equation before you eventually pop the big question – Will you go out with me? Okay, ‘Will you marry me’ is the big question :)
‘…you’re worrying about her and she’s worrying about hers’ – Lil Wayne
Happy dating!
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He wakes up around 4.30am and eventually drags himself out of bed by 5am (after engaging the 5-minute snooze button six times, of course). He does this from Monday to Friday; not because he wants to but because he knows if he doesn’t he’ll risk reporting to the office after 7.30am, by which time his line supervisor would issue him a well deserved query. He does a fast clean – no literally, FAST as in Face, Armpits, Scalp and Teeth. It’s arguably ineffective but fools all his colleagues ,whom may actually be birds of the same feather. He throws on his T.M. Lewin shirt – the shirt that makes a bold statement in the business world, the shirt that is so often used to impress at that desperately awaited job interview, the shirt that shouts to the world, ‘I care about how I look and I know I look damn good. Don’t cha wish your T.M was hot like mine?’ But after all this he complements this pristine shirt badly with his overworked suit before dashing out to hustle for sardine space in an overloaded public bus.


Nasal carbon dioxide exchange is on the high especially on those rainy days where you can’t open the windows too much. The sweat is no match for his Brut antiperspirant but his T.M Lewin collar gets it, and so does the full length of his arm sleeve rubbing against the perspiring brute aka bus conductor. He gets off at the usual bus stop and walks down to his office 10 minutes away. His T.M Lewin isn’t looking as sharp as when you first put it on. The starch-effect is fast fading and as he speeds up the stairs and arrives at his desk with one more accessory than the neck tie and cuff links he left home with – sweat beads. He makes it just in time for his weekly review meeting which is no different from the Spanish inquisition.


Alas, T.M. Lewin can’t impress his boss if his sales figures can’t. In fact, it becomes a source of ridicule; how he can look so good and yet have his figures look so bad. He returns to work after the meeting…dejected and demoralized…he goes to the restroom to have a private moment to reflect. He’s arrested in his tracks as he’s greeted by Mr. T.M Lewin staring right back at him in the mirror. His momentary admiration borders on narcissism but he suddenly leaks a little smile, adjusts his lopsided necktie and tells himself, ‘One day I will rise…I will break away and do my own thing…The world hasn’t seen the best of me…I’m the man’. He rolls up his sleeves then leaves the restroom. He walks back to his table with his head held high with an air of confidence…in his sparkling white (but slightly wrinkled) custom-fitted T.M. Lewin. He looks good so he feels good. He is ready to face the day’s challenges and slave put in some overtime to get back into his master’s good book where the latter was once impressed by the T.M. Lewin look…
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Yoruba Babes
First date: You take her to an Owambe Party, naturally she does not put on an under wear. You have sex with her standing behind a car in the
dark end of the street.
Second date: You meet her in a restaurant just ordering a plate of amala and two kpomo, she sees you and orders for salad, chicken, goat meet, turkey, etc. you go to her house and have sex.
Third date: She is pregnant, but not too sure who is responsible.
Igbo Babe:
First date: She tells you about her being the first born of the family, and has twelve others to take care of. She eats and drinks, no sex.
Second date: Her father is very sick and needs some money for urgent treatment. She shows you enough just to entice you.
Third date: She has never tried it before, you are going to be the first person; however, she has two kids at home, so promise you will marry me.
Hausa Babe:
First date: Get drunk, eat a lot of suya meat, have sex.
Second date: get drunk, eat meat, and have sex.
Third date: Get drunk, have sex; lets get married.
Rivers Babe.
First date: Where do you work, oil or gas company?, Good, go to club, get drunk, have sex.
Second date: Pay for house rent, assist in setting up business. Play along, then offto her house, good sea food, and more sex.
Third date: Informs you of one or two previous kids she has for two different men, and then the big one; she is pregnant for you, consider marriage or my Ijaw brothers will be after you.
Cross Rivers Babe
First date: Rather you eat at home, makes good delicious Edikankon soup with lots of fishes and meat. Cleans up the house everywhere sparkling even before you are out from the gents. Serves you the food nicely, with a lot of sweet soothing words. Goes to the room, makes the bed and bingo, have sex.
Second date: All your cloths washed, the house swept, moped, and dusted. Water to wash up after a hard days job Food is ready before you can change from your work cloth. Sweet words of praises, and swap; have an exhausting marathon sex.
Third date: Cloths washed, house clean as never before, food is ready and served as if in a restaurant, then another exhausting rounds of sex.
You are the one to now ask, “will you marry me”

Tuesday 28 October 2014

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Signs of a bad friend

There are many reasons that can cause a friend to turn bad. But when they do, it is often difficult for us to see this in them due to the high level of pretext and fake smiles they usually put on. A bad friend is one who always tries to use you because you have many possessions than he or she.
A bad friend is always jealous of you over things like car, your apartment, having lots of money, clothes, shoes etc. But when you confront them, they become angry.
They disrespect you and your belongings. When they borrow money, there never pay you back. Borrow your clothes, property, and never give it. At times, they return it damaged. They may also ask for a favor but can never return a favor. All these are signs of a bad friend.
Below are signs of a bad friend. The more of these signs you spot out, the more the probability your friend is no different.

Everything is about themselves

They always talk about themselves. Also, they could care a less about you, your day, how you're feeling. You may also notice that they brag a lot. Whether it is about themselves, materialistic possessions, boyfriend, getting married, or a vacation, they always find something to make them sound better than you do. Seems to always have an opinion about everything. Can't share you with other people.
When they do see you with other people, they're jealous because they want you all to themselves. Can't include you to see a movie with their boy or girlfriend. Spends lots of time with them, and when their other half is busy they want you all the time. Smiles in your face, but when around other people, make you feel small by continuously putting you down verbally.
They may also do things such as drugs and deny it. They might promise to call you back, but never do. Always keep you waiting. Always make excuses as to why they didn't call you.
Always come to you when they have problems, but when you need to vent or advice they're very short with you. So not fair when you don't mind spending two hours plus to cool them down; instead for you it's like five minutes. You're not a therapist. They may also stay mad at you when you two are in a fight. This is because they can only see their point of view.

They usually behave like informant

They are not really interested in you. You might notice that these people always need to know everything. For example, you may be talking to another friend about a secret and she/he wants to know what you're talking about.
They often try to overhear conversations between you and other people. They often lie. They may fraud their name, age etc. just to deceive you. Be careful from them. They may soon blackmail or bully you. They may eat up your things.
If they bully you never be shy to tell an elder. So try to dump this friend as soon as you find out that they are poisonous
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Why do we sometimes fall in love with the wrong people?

I know many people may be wondering where such a question arises but I want you to know that this is nothing strange to people who never managed to keep a successful marriage/love relationship.
Such people are common everywhere but don’t look further; I happened to be a victim to this. If I have to be very candid here, I will say that most of the girls I dated in my college school days were just the wrong set of people.
This therefore pushed me to the edge to an extent in life that I began to reflect on my past relationship failures and from there, I started wondering why we do fall in love with the wrong people and from there, I decided to prop into this issue and so, came up with this article after being satisfied with what I got as a result of my 30days research on the topic.

This is Why we fall in love with the wrong people sometimes

The points listed below will act as some kind of assistance in bringing out the reasons why at times, we may fall in love with someone believing we’ve met our soul mates but later on discover that the soul mate we found was just the wrong match for us.
  • Relationship dependency: Relationship dependency is when a person finds his relationship as a means of solving their financial or social issues. With this impression in mind, such people are likely to fall in love with anyone having or matching such qualifications. But for the fact that someone has what we want does not necessarily guarantee that we share emotional feelings for them, right? In my article 'Getting over your ex in few days', I explained in details how relationship dependency happens to be one of the reasons why some people find it hard or never recover after the lost of their loved once. A research was carried out by a team of researchers in California after which it was evident that, as a result of relationship dependency, many people fall in love with the wrong people (their opposites) as a result of getting what they could not afford and also as a means of escaping from unwanted situations or bad memories.
  • Relationship by command: Are you aware that around the world, they are people who are today in relationships as a result of external influences and not by their desires and love for their partners? Most Africans really know about this better. For examples, in Africa, at the age of even 10, the parents already decided a lifetime partner for the child even though as ignorant as the child might be. Now, the worse of it being that, as a child, he accepts without any form of resistance and later in life starts regretting since he never married his desired partner and so, it’s evidently clear that their relationship will constantly suffer from petty breakups all the time as an effect of relationship by command. The issue of relationship by command also goes beyond teenage circles. Even at the age of adulthood when we are influenced by the society, parents, friends, and relatives to marry a certain person. When it happens, the sort of marriage is not based on genuine love desires since it originated from influential factors and not true love itself.
  • Social approval: Another factor why we fall in love with the wrong people is when we tend to answer to the call of social approval. For instance, Claudine had two friends and the first got married to a certain star and the second got married to a famous business guy in town. Most of the time, they constantly keep reminding Claudine of their new life styles; they keep talking of their husbands and the big times that come alongside being with their husbands. Not too long Claudine turned down the proposal Mark had made to her. They had shared this relationship for five years, but since Claudine was now influenced by her friends she now wants a famous guy and so, she no more finds Mark interesting as before. The issue here is that, she will likely fall in love with anyone appearing to be popular or famous (scammers, thieves, drug dealers are also famous) whether he is Mr. right or wrong thereby, the issue of falling in love with the wrong person is born.
  • Out of age: Also the problem of aging usual forces others to fall in love with the wrong people since they are usually left with the impression that they might end up without getting married or have a child. This issue confronts both men and women but women know this better especially towards the age of menopause as they are forced to get a child no matter what and so, all they need is just a relationship and this is no wonder why the divorce courts are usually busy as a result of falling in love with the wrong people.

Final say on why we fall in love with the wrong people

There are many reasons as to why some people find themselves in the wrong relationships but what I mentioned above is not just all but the main reasons behind this act.
In order to have more clues on this topic, see the related articles below of this. I should have compiled all the reasons/factors to make them as one great article, but if I do, the majority of readers will not be pleased to read something longer than this.
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The female body. It's a work of art and well deserves to be admired, while clothed or naked.

And if you peel your eyes away from her butt and breasts for a few moments, you can improve your chances with the one you're after. Just look for these 10 subtle signs to understand what she's thinking and feeling.

Pupils

If she's feeling stimulated by you (not just sexually), her pupils will dilate. That's because her body is programmed to want to see more of whatever's exciting her, so her brain tells her irises to let in more light. Bonus: As the inkiness spreads, she'll start looking better to you, too. Research shows that men rate women with larger pupils as more attractive. Time to make your move.

Eyelashes

Hold her gaze for a minute. If she's blinking more than normal (which is about 15 times a minute), there's a good chance she's on the Pill; women on birth control blink 32 percent more than those who aren't. Aside from the obvious, what does that mean for you? Put on your toughest, most confident mug as you look at her. Because of the shift in hormone levels, research says, women on the Pill are more attracted to men with rugged features, such as strong, wide jaws.

Brain
She's matching you drink for drink but she seems like her same old self. What's the deal? Men and women get different kinds of buzzes: Men lose inhibitions, while women become sedated. If you're looking to get her into the party spirit, don't feed her more alcohol. Instead, turn up the music. Research shows that mid- to fast-tempo music will make her more social.

Belly
Want to know if it's a good or bad time to broach a tricky conversation? You can tell if she's suitably relaxed by her breathing pattern. If her stomach pulls in with each inhalation, she's taking shallow breaths from her chest, which indicates stress. Keep your distance. If her abdomen and chest expand with each inhalation, she's taking deeper, more rhythmic breaths—a sign of relaxation. Go for it.

Nose

Her sense of smell is sharpest first thing in the morning, which, aside from being a good reason to brush your teeth immediately, makes it the best time to impress her with your culinary skills. That's because 90 percent of taste is really smell. Treat her to a breakfast in bed consisting of banana, which has an aroma that, according to one study, increases bloodflow to the vagina. And that may lead to a different kind of morning treat.

Chest

Sex flush, a pinkish look to the skin of her chest, occurs during foreplay. It stems from changes in blood pressure and circulation, along with pulse and respiration rates. Think of it as her coy way of telling you that if you keep doing what you're doing, you just might get lucky. Another sign that things are working: A woman's breasts grow by as much as 25 percent as things turn hot and heavy.

Small of Her Back

As she moves toward orgasm during sex, she'll begin to arch her back. Hold her tight around the small of her back at this point and stay attuned to how much she's arching. And, for God's sake, do not let up; maintain the same rhythm and intensity of stimulation until she climaxes. She'll pay you back for this later, with interest.

Fingernails

Pay attention to her fingers; among the surest signs of anxiety or depression in a woman are body-focused repetitive behaviors, such as skin picking and nail biting. If you see her doing that, don't nag her to stop; that can send her deeper into a spiral. Instead, gently pull her hand away, give it a squeeze, and hold on to it. Feel the tension ooze right out.

Hands

If it seems as if she always has cold hands, that's because she does—almost 3 degrees colder than yours, possibly more if she's stressed. Women's bodies, even more than men's, are programmed to keep their cores warmer than their extremities. So to warm her hands up, don't massage them; wrap your arm around her waist. This will warm her core and allow blood to flow back into her hands.

Between Her Legs

Okay, you know enough about your partner's menstrual cycle to know when to leave her alone. Now add this to your arsenal: Two weeks after her period begins, she will be at her horniest, guaranteed. Female sexual motivation is highest when she's ovulating. Warning: This is also when she's most likely to get pregnant.

Hope I hit the vital points?

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