HAVING SEX FOR THE FIRST TIME(FACTS NO ONE WILL EVER TELL YOU)

What is virginity?

A ‘virgin’ is traditionally seen as someone who
has never had sexual intercourse before. However, people have different ideas about what ‘losing
your virginity’ means. For some, it’s having heterosexual sex for the first time. For others, it can mean having any sort of sex – including gay or lesbian sex – for the first time.

Does oral / fingering / anal / hand jobs count as.losing your virginity?

This is a difficult question, and again, people have different views. Whether you think these things
‘count’ or not, don’t forget that all of them can transmit sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).
And whatever you think ‘being a virgin’ means, remember that the most important thing is
making sure you’re ready before you do anything sexual, whether it’s the first time or not. There’s
nothing wrong with being a virgin, and you shouldn’t feel like you have to go further then you
are comfortable with because of peer pressure.

Won’t I look inexperienced if I admit it’s my first time?

No – be honest with your partner. There’s nothing embarrassing about telling them that you
haven’t been with anyone else. If you’re close enough to someone to be thinking about having
sex, you should be close enough to be able to talk honestly to him or her.
“We’ve sort of decided to wait a bit longer before we do it. I mean, we have kissed and felt each
other and all that sort of thing, you know, maybe just going a little bit further each time”

Won’t I be judged if I admit that I’ve had sex before?

Again, it’s usually better to have enough of a trusting relationship to chat openly about your
experiences.You deserve not to be judged. If anyone makes you feel bad for things that have happened in your life, they’re probably not good enough to give your time to. Remember that there is no definite
way of knowing if a girl is a virgin or not, a lack of bleeding is not proof (see ‘will first time sex
hurt’ below). I’m getting married and have not had sex before… In some countries, it’s common for young people to get married. Sometimes families arrange the marriage, sometimes not. You may have already
been in a relationship with your partner, or you may not know your partner very well. Whatever
the situation, talk to your partner about sex before you do it, and don’t feel like you have to rush into
it on your wedding night.

Will first time sex hurt?

First-time sex can be painful or hurt, and some girls or young women do bleed a little bit. The
bleeding usually occurs because the girl has a hymen which breaks the first time she has sexual
intercourse. The hymen is a small piece of thin skin which goes across the opening of the vagina and
protects it when she is young. It has some gaps in it where the blood can come out when she has
her period. Sometimes a girl might already have broken her hymen without knowing about it. For
example, this can happen as a result of playing sports or horse riding.
Sex the first time shouldn’t be painful or hurt for a boy or young man, but he can make it easier
for his partner by being gentle and taking it slowly – try to make it special for you both.

Is the first time someone has sex enjoyable?

Some couples say that on their first time they both enjoyed it, other couples say that neither of
them had an orgasm. It’s an individual thing, just try not to expect too much from your first time –
like anything else, it takes a while to learn about your body and about your partner’s. Just make
sure that you’re ready and you’ve got contraception sorted out.

“What was it like? – 

Well it’s difficult to describe
because I’d never felt anything like it before really. I’d had orgasms through masturbation before, but
sharing yourself with someone you love and respect was really good. It brought us closer together. ”

Check Back Next Time For Another Episode
Am I ready for sex?
Having sex
Sex, fun and safety

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HOW TO KISS--- Part 1

There are kisses for just about every emotion and occasion — the greeting kiss on the cheek,the maternal kiss on the forehead, an
affectionate kiss on the lips — but on those certain occasions when you want to communicate passion and maybe lust, not just.any kiss will do. You need a fiercely passionate kiss. If done incorrectly, these kisses can turn
out being gross or sloppy, but when performed
with skill and feeling, there is no greater
expression of desire.

1. Make sure your breath is minty fresh
and clean. Naturally you practice good
oral hygiene, but if you have any doubts
about your breath, take a breath mint
shortly before the kiss. Make sure to finish
the mint or gum before you lock lips.
Be careful, as some mints may leave a
bad aftertaste and make your breath
worse. Water is the best bet! Leaves
you no aftertaste, and freshens your
mouth and does not leave you thirsty.

2. Make sure your breath is minty fresh
and clean. Naturally you practice good
oral hygiene, but if you have any doubts
about your breath, take a breath mint
shortly before the kiss. Make sure to finish
the mint or gum before you lock lips.
Be careful, as some mints may leave a
bad aftertaste and make your breath
worse. Water is the best bet! Leaves
you no aftertaste, and freshens your
mouth and does not leave you thirsty.
Approach the kiss with confidence. Try
to kiss their cheek so they turn their
head your way. Once you've chosen the
right moment to kiss someone, there's no
turning back, especially if it's your first time
kissing that particular person. Be decisive
and confident. If the person doesn't want the
kiss, he or she will let you know, but until
then, act as though you're a pro.

3.Make sure your breath is minty fresh
and clean. Naturally you practice good
oral hygiene, but if you have any doubts
about your breath, take a breath mint
shortly before the kiss. Make sure to finish
the mint or gum before you lock lips.
Be careful, as some mints may leave a
bad aftertaste and make your breath
worse. Water is the best bet! Leaves
you no aftertaste, and freshens your
mouth and does not leave you thirsty.
Approach the kiss with confidence. Try
to kiss their cheek so they turn their
head your way. Once you've chosen the
right moment to kiss someone, there's no
turning back, especially if it's your first time
kissing that particular person. Be decisive
and confident. If the person doesn't want the
kiss, he or she will let you know, but until
then, act as though you're a pro.
Set the mood. If you truly want your
kiss to be passionate, you will need to
set the right mood. That doesn’t mean that
you have to throw rose petals everywhere
and light a hundred candles, but you should
be some place without many distractions--
that way you can both focus on each other
(and your passionate kiss).

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DONT EVER TRUST GIRLS

Yea, some girls are not to be trusted simply because of their fragile mind and their overwhelming love for guys.

Girls hate to admit the fact that they have undying love and extreme positive feelings for we guys. Even when they are in an active relationship,they still find comfort in eyeing other guys which is not fair to us.

I have so much personally experienced a lot of girls atrocities,betrayals,distrust,amongst others. Have you ever seen your girl talking to other guys when you are with her? How do you really feel? Good or bad?

Girls so much love attention with extreme love and care,whereas,they give guys just little. This is just a preamble into the main topic we are going into.

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5 Biggest Secrets Women Don't Want Men to Know

BETHESDA, Maryland -- Women, often considered "the Mysterious Sex," will now be a bit less mysterious thanks to the recently leaked document, "5 Biggest Secrets About Women They Don't Want Men to Know!" They eye-opening document was leaked by an insider at the all-female National Women's Research Institute, in Bethesda, Maryland. "When we find out which of our employees leaked those survey results," states NWRI spokeswoman Melanie Aroyan, "she'll be fired -- and sued. And if it was up to me, she'd also be horse-whipped."
The document consists of the survey answers of over 10,000 women of all ages and ethnic groups to the question, "As a woman, what is it about you that you would never want men to know?" The survey results were never meant to be revealed to men, as they represent the deepest secrets women have about their gender.
Here, from the survey's summation page, are the 5 Biggest Secrets About Women They Don't Want Men to Know:

1. Women's Public Bathrooms Are Lush Havens Beyond Men's Wildest Dreams. If a man mistakenly enters a woman's public bathroom, he'll see what appears to be an ordinary restroom. Only women, however, know the location of the secret sliding panel in each women's restroom that opens to reveal the hidden, deluxe section. This section features wild, tropical plants; hunky, naked male models offering sensual massages; the live music of a classical quartet; a jacuzzi and sauna; luscious gourmet foods and wines; attendants offering manicures, pedicures, and bikini waxes; an upscale clothing boutique; and current movies on large-screen TVs.

2. Women Are Just Pretending to Have Periods. There's no such thing as menstrual cycles and periods. It's something women simply made up to give themselves a one-week reprieve from men's non-stop groping and pawing in bed. And, yes, the tampon companies are all run by women and are in on the scam. Women get a refund check from the tampon companies at the end of each year for a percentage of their tampon purchases.

3. Women Crave Sex Even More Than Men Do. If men knew that, though, it would throw off the whole balance of sexual power that is now clearly in women's favor. For this reason, women must maintain the illusion that what's between their legs is gold and to be rationed judiciously.

4. Every Woman is Bisexual. Women just pretend to be upset when a relationship with a man comes to an end. In reality, that's their perfect opportunity to immediately begin or resume a passionate relationship with one of their many hot female friends.

5. Women Will Take Over the Planet in the Year 2025. Since it has already been proven that women are smarter, more resourceful, emotionally stronger, more attractive, and live longer than men -- it only makes sense that they, and not men, should run the world. They have been planning to take over the planet for the past 150 years. They hope to do so in a non-violent fashion, but are nonetheless prepared to do so by any means necessary.

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TOP MOTIVATIONAL QUOTES BY UNIQUE AUTHORS

In every day, there are 1,440 minutes. That means we have 1,440 daily opportunities to make a positive impact. Les Brown

1. Life isn’t about getting and having, it’s about giving and being. –Kevin Kruse

2. Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve. –Napoleon Hill

3. Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value. – Comrade Olamilekan

4. Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.  –Robert Frost

5. I attribute my success to this: I never gave or took any excuse. –Florence Nightingale

6. You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. –Wayne Gretzky

7. I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed. –Michael Jordan

8. The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity. –Amelia Earhart

9. Every strike brings me closer to the next home run. –Babe Ruth

10. Definiteness of purpose is the starting point of all achievement. –W. Clement Stone

11. We must balance conspicuous consumption with conscious capitalism. –Kevin Kruse

12. Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans. –John Lennon

13. We become what we think about. –Earl Nightingale

14.Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do, so throw off the bowlines, sail away from safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your sails.  Explore, Dream, Discover. –Mark Twain

15.Life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. –Charles Swindoll

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